An interesting study I read this morning at http://online.wsj.com/article/SB125548136491383915.html?mod=WSJ_hps_RIGHTTopCarousel gave very mixed reviews on an already controversial issue; spanking a child. I’m not sure about you, but there were a few instances when I was a child that I was spanked and I most certainly deserved it. What I don’t remember is being drug around a grocery store by one arm as I kicked and screamed while getting a swat every 30 to 45 seconds on the rear. The same goes for my wife, who can most definitely recall the few times that she was spanked as a child. Those cases left us with a lasting impression and served the purpose: behavior modification.
There are many times in the past few months, while raising our two year old, that some form of discipline was required. Sometimes that was as simple as taking the time to sit down with him and explain something in more detail, sometimes that was a screaming and kicking trip to time out, other times it was the loss of a privilege, and sometimes it has even meant getting up from dinner and walking outside with him. Our son’s discipline has yet to include a spanking, but that’s not to say that in the future as he gets a little older and a different message needs sent, when ongoing behavior issues exist, that it won’t be an option — it will. It worked for both my wife and I in an impactful way (pun intended).
Parenting is unique for every family, every child, every culture, but what we all need to remember is a good dose of adult common sense. In the meantime, the next time I don’t get a promotion or a new job I applied for, I’ll just blame my parents; they spanked me you know!
Until tomorrow… -bag